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im confused about how to get a date... i need some help with that. im not that great at flirting and i can never tell if the person likes me back. whats the best way to get a date? whats the best way to flirt? how do you tell if someones flirting with you? i want to know the kommunitys opinion.
(plz dont say just be yourself))
Keep a pack of gum on ya. Seriously, though Be yourself. No matter how much you don't wanna hear that, it's the truth. It's better than being someone you're not, then having some girl find out, get cheesed off at you then call you a string of bad words; that you definitely don't wanna hear.
Firstly, I personally like someone to talk to. Conversation and communication is everything. Be ready to talk about the most random things, be honest, and most of all be willing to voice your opinion. If you wanna go ask a girl on a date, be sure to: Smell nice, smile, be polite and have gum/mints/tictacs/etc.Don't beat around the bush! If you have something to say, just come out with it.
And if you get knocked down, really don't worry so much. There is someone out there for everyone. It might just take a few tries to find the right on. ^^
This already sounds like the stuff above.(XD A TREND!)
First off, my advice (due to experience) is that you shouldn't really go looking for someone to date. You'll know when you find someone. I would strongly advise you not to get to caught up in dating especially if you're under 16.
But, if you're serious about your question and think you're ready to date, I would suggest buying this book --> http://www.amazon.com/Young-Men-Only-Guide-Gender/dp/160142020X/ref...
It's an excellent book (I've read it), and it gives you information that you never would have thought of. These people really know what they're talking about. So I implore you to consider that.
If being yourself worked you'd have lots of girls. You got to fix yourself up. The thing is you got to not get nervous. When you ask her out you have to have the confidence in yourself. Ask her out and if she say no, screw her (don't actually screw her but in a figurtive meaning). There are over 6 billion girls in the world. At least one will say yes. Good luck with her. By the way make sure you smell good and your breath doesn't stink. No girl will kiss a guy with stank breath.
Don't sweat it! Lots of people never date in HS. I didn't until the last semester of my senior year, and my first gf and I are still in touch on FaceBook! Don't judge yourself by how others judge you, or compare yourself with them. All the advice above seems really good, especially from the ladies. Take it to heart, but just be laid-back about it all. I know that is hard to do, but girls generally are less attracted to guys who seem "desperate."
Above all, just keep trying, you will find just the right girl, she might even be sitting in an art class right next to you like my first gf was!
Use an awsome pick up line like, "My love for you is like diaria, I just can't hold it in."
I have absolutely no idea how to get a date.